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Today I want to share with you something that REALLY impressed and excited me….

 

I was curious about Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) for some time, and especially about its relatively new powerhouse method – Time Line Therapy™ (TLT).

 

I’ve heard that NLP, which was created as a model for human excellence, is largely used to improve communication and performance and that all the best speakers, coaches and masterful presenters use NLP to achieve high-impact performance. I’ve also heard that TLT is one of the most powerful and quickest transformational systems in existence….

 

This one got me REALLY hooked!

 

So, this year I decided to dive deep into NLP and TLT and took the NLP Practitioner certification training last July in London. It was a truly phenomenal experience!! I am absolutely astonished by the fact that many dis-eases – limiting beliefs, self-esteem issues, depression, anxiety, stress-induced mood swings, phobias and negative emotions (e.g. fear, anger, sadness, guilt, shame, hurt, etc.) – can be eliminated, healed, released from your body. I mean like… gone!!

 

And that’s not all!

 

Using NLP and TLT techniques, you can put yourself (and your audience) into an empowering learning and expansion state, anchor new supportive beliefs, and literally insert your goals into your future!!

 

Yes, you’ve read it right. YOU CAN INSERT YOUR GOALS INTO YOUR FUTURE.

 

I must also tell you that TLT is one of the most spiritual ‘things’ I’ve learned and experienced. It deals not only with your Conscious Mind (the one you are aware of and which reflects your physical reality), but also with your Unconscious Mind – the ever present embedded mind that stores and organizes all your memories, that may repress memories of unresolved negative emotions, that ‘runs’ your body (breathing, blood circulating, etc.) and preserves it.

 

Your Unconscious Mind is the domain of your emotions, instincts and habits. It is a highly moral being… it does NOT process negatives… it always tries to please you and works on the principle of least effort. That is why it is so important to be specific with your wishes and state them only in a positive (e.g. “I am wealthy, healthy and free.”) Your wish is literally a command to your Unconscious Mind!

 

The NLP model explains so eloquently why different people may have different perceptions and experiences of the same physical reality. It’s because we all have different FILTERS that affect the way we perceive and experience the external reality! Yes, the filters (e.g. language, memories, decisions, deeply sited preferences, values, beliefs and attitudes) influence what you notice and focus on… your internal reality. And your internal reality eventually becomes your external REALITY.

 

The main reason I am sharing with you some of the insights from my NLP Practitioner Certification training is to reiterate one very important mental point: YOU CAN CHANGE anything that you no longer want to identify with and do it without going through the pain and despair as your motivators.

 

Have you noticed that oftentimes it takes some painful life situations for a person to be willing to step out of the comfort zone and change in order to go from “here and now” to the “desired state”?

 

Feeling stuck in unhappy relationship yet being afraid to leave because of money concerns; wanting and deserving to earn more but getting stuck in under-earning and not owning your worth; allowing fear, social comparison and negativity deplete your health, finances and your energy. These are just a few painful life situations that may trigger decisive actions.

 

However, you don’t have to take the hard road!

 

I had the privilege to facilitate the NLP and TLT sessions to several people thus far and… I am simply astounded with the quick and deep transformations I’ve witnessed!!

 

“I am not good enough”, “I am not smart enough”, “I am not ready to take action” beliefs – GONE!

“I am not good at managing my money”, “It was not meant for me to be wealthy”, “I am afraid to fail” beliefs – GONE!

Deeply hidden energies of painful emotions like fear, anger, sadness, hurt, shame, guilt… GOOONE!!

 

I myself was able to release stored negative emotions, limiting beliefs and decisions, have set goals into the future timeline and much more!

 

You see… with the NLP and TLT, YOU CAN bypass the pain motivators and get directly to your desired state of being – the state where peace of mind, happiness, and joy become your new normal.

 

This is the Path of Least resistance.

 

Here’s the bottom line from experiencing the TLT healing myself to facilitating this amazing technique to others:
YOU HAVE THE POWER IN YOU to release stored memories (aka energies) and old limiting beliefs and decisions, which may cause you emotional pains in the present, block you from achieving your goals and prevent you from living a prosperous life.

 

YES, YOU HAVE THE POWER IN YOU. Use it to up-level your life experiences.

 

With Love and Gratitude,

 

 

Millen

 

P.S. I’m currently offering a Personal Breakthrough Magic transformational sessions using the TLT.
If you want to break through any painful stored memories, negative emotions and energy-draining limitations that were accumulated in your body and energy field over time,  simply schedule your Breakthrough Session directly HERE.

 

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As you probably know, everything has a cause and effect in our physical world… everything! And you often get stuck if you focus only on the effect….

 

Just pause for a sec and see if it resonates with you…

 

I’ve met many women who feel angry, hurt or powerless after a bad relationship, or loss of business, or loss of money.  Although their life circumstances were different, what I noticed was that most of them saw their problems totally outside of themselves, outside of their control so they felt they had no choice….

 

And here is the tricky part in this. When you see the cause of your problem completely outside of your reach, you feel powerless and discouraged. Taking responsibility for anything that you experience – positive (that one is easy, right? LOL) AND challenging – is the beginning of EMPOWERMENT.
Would you agree?

 

When you face challenging situation, whether personal, health-related or financial, you have a choice to pretend that there is no problem; wait till the problem goes away/disappears; complain about it and feel sorry for your luck; or take full responsibility (without blaming yourself or feeling that it’s your ‘fault’) and pro-actively seek resolution of the problem.

 

Look, I am not speaking hypothetically here…. Just like you, I was faced with a few challenges in life (yes, the whole shebang: immigration, divorce, serious health issues, joblessness, loss of money, depression, powerlessness, money anxiety, etc.). There were times in my life when I pretended, hided or felt sorry for myself and my luck….

 

It didn’t work well for me.

 

The only thing that worked was taking full responsibility for my situation, taking small steps and making smarter decisions.

 

Here are some questions I like to ask myself that help get unstuck:

 

  • “How did I attract this?”
  • “How can I change that?”, or “What can I do about it?”
  • “What are positive learnings from this experience?”
  • “How does it empower me going forward?”

 

I’ve realized that taking responsibility means having choices. And knowing that I always have choices, helps get unstuck and move forward.

Does it resonate? Let me know!

 

To your Wealth, Health and Freedom!

 

 

P.S. I’ve noticed from speaking to many women during discovery calls that some would benefit from a short, laser coaching that would help get clarity about specific next steps and see choices that sometimes hard to see from where you are because it’s just too close… Soooo, I decided, to offer a private 75 minutes coaching session +15 min follow up call to help you move forward with clarity and confidence.

 

AND for the FIRST 4 people who apply BEFORE August 1st (the coaching session itself can be scheduled later, of course) I OFFER $200 “I Am Ready!” incentive!!!
You see, I want to see you WINNING, NOT Whining. So, if you are ready and committed to becoming financially powerful and at the moment need a little tweak/accountability/clarity/second opinion/anything else – let me know! Email me or schedule the Money Breakthrough coaching

 

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In recent Being Financially Free article, I invited you to pause and ask yourself 3 important questions:

  1. Where are you now, financially? 
  2. Where do you want to be in X year, financially?
  3. What would need to happen during these x years for you to get to your financial goal?

 

Last time, we covered the first question, “Where are you now, financially?” Today, let’s talk about where you want to be in X years… As you know, it really helps to know what you want and believe that it’s possible for you!

 

First of all, I invite you to choose your short, medium and long term time-milestones.

 

Let’s say, your short term milestone is 1 year. Where do you see yourself in 1 year?

Where do you live? Do you rent or own your home? Are you paying of your mortgage, credit card debt, car loan or none of the above?

What do you do? Do you see yourself working, studying or taking sabbatical?

 

If you’re working, do you see yourself having a job or running your own business? It’s an important question to ask yourself…. First of all, not everybody wants to be self-employed… And  even if you are a business owner right now, if your business does not yet support your lifestyle, you may want to look for a ‘bridge work’ – an intermediate work – to give yourself some time to get your business off the ground and allow it to gain a momentum without adding extra stress to your life.

 

Do you see yourself commuting to work or working from home? Do you plan to buy a new car or new appliances for your home? Will you need to support your children (if they are not yet independent)? Parents? Do you live with a partner who contributes financially or you are a bread-winner?

 

Write down the description of the imaginary picture of your life in 1 year…. Clarity of your desires will steer your financial and personal choices and actions.

 

OK, let’s move on to the intermediate milestone – 5 years from now. Where do you see yourself 5 years from now?

 

Visualize your life… Imagine yourself getting dressed in the morning, having breakfast, preparing for your day…. Do you run a business or have a job? Do you have a team that support you or you’re a solopreneur? Does your business support your lifestyle, financially? Do you feel financially secure? How many days per week and hours per day do you see yourself working?

How often do you go on vacation?  How much saving do you have in the bank? How big and diversified is your investment portfolio? What have you invested in – other businesses, stock market, real estate, gold and silver, something else?

 

Visualize your life in 5 years (not from a place where you are now but from a place where you want to be in 5 years)…. Describe everything – your home, your work, your looks, what you do, who is with you – as clearly as you can and write down everything that you feel and see with your inner eye.

 

Now let’s leap forward in time by 10 or 15 years. Where do you see yourself 15 years from now?

 

Create a mental picture of your life, describe it in details. Where do you live? Who is there with you? Do you see yourself working or retired? If you work, what do you do? Do you have to work or you choose to work? Do you have at least 6 month of your living expenses in your emergency fund account? Do you have a pension and/or an investment portfolio that allows you to feel financially secure? How often do you go on vacation? Do you feel content, joyful, fulfilled and happy with where you are?

 

Once you feel that you are ready, write down the picture of your life you imagine in 10-15 years. Do you like what you envision? Is there anything you would like to change?

 

This is a great exercise to gage whether you’re on track to the life you want to create for yourself. Remember, with every thought, decision, and action – small or big – you are creating your life. And if something is not working for you – dare to change it!

 

You are allowed to change your mind and do what feels right to you ! It’s NEVER too late to course-correct the ship of your life!

 

To your Health, Wealth and Happiness!

  • ::Millen has a way of opening up conversations that not only make you feel safe to talk about money, but her questions have been so profound that they have made immediate shifts in my mindset and my circumstances have changed almost immediately too, including more money showing up, but more importantly, more and more opportunities.  I have found new and inspired direction, and am feeling a lot more peaceful and excited about life in general. Millen offers so much value and a solid advice! She is a big picture thinker and it is infectious! Thank you, Millen, from the bottom of my heart and the top of my soul.

    ~ Renee Commins, Coach, Renee Commins Coaching

  • ::Millen Livis is a gift to humanity. Millen is very generous with her time and energy, sharing her vast life experiences and strengths, empowering me to become a better human being. Millen has impacted my life spiritually, emotionally, physically and financially, by her encouragement and clarity. I have not said, “Thank you!” enough.

    ~ Heidi Stefan, B.A. Detox Support Counselor, Archstone Recovery Center of the Palm Beaches, Inc.

  • ::Millen brings together an interesting mix of feminine wisdom, clear logic, assertiveness and humility in all of her interactions. With her warmth, intelligence, diverse experience and passion for ‘Dare to be the best you could be’ message, she inspires other women to reach for the goals they set for themselves.

    ~ Sharon Keller, Golden Bear Realty, LLC

  • ::Using laser like energy, Millen gives her full attention to your issue and stays with it until a satisfactory resolution or conclusion is reached. Open minded, yet direct and honest, Millen balances objectivity with compassion. It is a joy to work with her!

    ~ Mary L. Holden, Freelance Editor and Writer

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