I want to share with you a true story that led me to a decision to include the Essential #2 into my list of principals for Creating Wealth and Success.
I own a successful real estate business and some time ago had the following conversation with one of my clients, Kate, who is a young married professional woman who has problems paying her rent and bills in general.
Kate: “You’re lucky, Millen. You’re wealthy, you don’t need to work, you have a nice car! You don’t understand how hard it is when you never have enough money. You don’t understand how it feels to be poor!”
Me: ” Actually, Kate, I was in much worse situation than you have right now… more than once.
I experienced being jobless and working for minimum wage jobs, being alone and depressed, broke and broken….
I had to learn how to FEEL wealthy even when I didn’t have much on my bank account. I had to learn how to become a savvy manager of my money so that I will be able to pay my rent and bills…save and invest.
I had to learn how to believe in myself, so I could eventually create a life I wanted to have. So, it’s NOT luck. It’s the CHOICES that I made that led me to the life I have now.”
And that brings me to the
Essential #2 for Creating Wealth and Success:
Install and keep reinforcing supportive beliefs about yourself, money and wealth
Let me go over the WHAT, the WHY and the HOW.
WHAT are Beliefs?
Repeatable thoughts, patterns of thinking, stories you continuously tell yourself when nobody else is listening….
The domain of your beliefs is your Subconscious Mind. You create your experiences by the CHOICES you make, which are determined by what you REALLY think and feel, which is the realm of Subconscious Mind.
When you were born, your subconscious mind was a blank slate… Have you noticed that little children have a natural sense of curiosity and excitement for life?
And then the programming started… “You have to be careful”, “you have to have a corporate job or be a doctor/lawyer to make a good living”, “you have to work REALLY hard to make money”, “you need to marry a wealthy man to have financial security”, “you are not the entrepreneurial type”, “being wealthy is not in your cards”, blah, blah, blah….
WHY it’s important…
When you have ‘money blocks’ in a form of self-limiting BELIEFS around money, wealth and self-worth, you SEE the world THROUGH THESE FILTERS, through the filters of YOUR UNSUPPORTED BELIEFS!
When you don’t believe that wealth is possible for you, you repel, don’t pay attention to, or dismiss the wealth-building opportunities when they show up in your life.
Your beliefs about money, wealth, yourself, and what’s possible for you are pictured out in your life experiences and your financial situation.
Your state of sub-consciousness is reflected in your experiences. And your state of sub-consciousness is determined by your deep beliefs and feelings….
Yes, your experiences in life are affected by what you FEEL and THINK you deserve and can achieve. You only “see” the circumstances that confirm your beliefs.…
THAT’s why it’s important to BE AWARE of your deep hidden beliefs and CHOOSE which ones you want to “install”, nurture, give energy to.
HOW to Install Supportive Beliefs
TRAIN your mind to acknowledge your successes, celebrate your WINS, become more intentional with your CHOICES, notice what works in your life, REINFORCE the behavior’s and beliefs that have helped you succeed in the past.
Establish DAILY wealth practices: meditation, journaling, counting your wins and actively appreciating what you have now, going for your wealth walks and using affirmations, asking “What if…” and “Why I can have/be/do…?” questions, etc.
If you don’t like where you currently are financially, you may ask yourself “What beliefs someone must have to manifest these experiences?” It’s the shortest and simplest way to uncover your hidden sabotaging beliefs.
Then you can ask “What actions someone could take to change this situation?”
You see, money is a special (metaphysical) mirror of your current values, thoughts, beliefs, and choices.
For example, if you keep spending more money than you make and don’t grow your savings, you may have a belief that you cannot manage your money well.
If you keep attracting clients who “cannot afford you”, you may have a hidden belief that your service is not really that valuable or that you are not “good enough” to charge your fees.
You see how it works?
Your beliefs are tightly connected to certain emotions.
When you have supportive beliefs about yourself, you feel peaceful, uplifted, grateful, and joyful.
When you have sabotaging beliefs, you feel discouraged, jealous, sad, angry, fearful, or ashamed.
But don’t be afraid of experiencing “negative emotions”. Notice them…acknowledge them because negative emotions are your clues to the hidden beliefs that are NOT TRUE.
P.S. Do you still live in a world of “surviving”, financially? Or feel that someone else is luckier than you?
Are you READY to step into your NEW WAY OF BEING and START THRIVING – with your money, your relationships, your work, your health?
THAT’s what I want for you…if YOU ARE READY to rock your world!
I see new POSSIBILITIES for you… New STANDARD OF LIVING… New “NORMAL”.
I offer you an AMAZING opportunity to TRANSFORM your life.
It’s called ACTIVATE EFFORTLESS WEALTH training.
If you still feel that you need to GET ready… you can stop reading right here.
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To your Health, Wealth and Freedom!
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Millen is a Wealth architect and Financial Independence Coach, entrepreneur, and a bestselling author. Being a Possibilities' Catalyst, she uses her intuition, business, and investment expertise to support entrepreneurial women (like you) who want to master their money, live their purpose achieve financial prosperity and freedom. With her physics and business education, corporate and entrepreneurial experience, money management know-how, mindfulness practices and transformational coaching skills, Millen has a unique ability to guide and support clients in achieving extraordinary success in their lives.
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