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  • 🎯TIPS for MAKING BETTER DECISIONS

    🎯TIPS for MAKING BETTER DECISIONS

    While I was communicating with a friend recently, she asked me a question that I think many people can relate to:

    “So, I need to spend money to learn about money?”

    I found her question fascinating, considering that she mentioned to me previously that she probably wasted a lot of money because she hasn’t managed it well….

    That the fear of wasting her savings is huge for her (she is a self-employed single mom)….

    That she knows that she needs to confront this fear.Yet her fear of making a “money mistake” keeps her feeling stuck in doubts, indecisions, and money worries.

    This experience reminded me that many people have difficult time with making financial decisions.

    So, in this article I’m going to share with you my top 3 tips for making better financial decisions.

    ✅ Develop a habit to see everything through the lens of an investor.

    When you spend money, by definition, it’s lost – there is no increased value for you, whether it’s monetary value or value in a form of better health, reduced stress, or elevated self-confidence.

    What if you look at your decisions to pay for something as an investor?

    “Will buying XYZ help me improve my health?”

    “Will paying for an XYZ program help me get clarity, become more knowledgeable and confident, propel me toward my goals?”

    “Will investing in XYZ potentially provide additional income and/or appreciate in value overtime?”

    If you answer YES to any of the above, paying for XYZ is investing, not spending.

    ✅ Focus on Solutions instead of dwelling on your Problems.

    Life tends to through a curveball when we least expect it and our response to challenging situations is crucial.

    While it’s important to acknowledge problems and to understand what is causing them, it’s essential to focus on possible solutions.

    During my recent Greek islands’ cruise, I met a widow, who lost her husband unexpectedly and was devastated not only by losing the love of her life but also by suddenly becoming solely responsible for making financial decisions.

    She took time to grieve… then made a decision to focus on solutions to her problem, which was her fear of dealing with money and making bad financial decisions.

    She bought books about managing and investing money.

    Then attended some free trainings online…

    And finally decided to get support and guidance by working with a mentor to help her become financially savvy and confident.

    I am honored to be her guide on this journey.

    Please anchor this statement in your mind:

    🙏You’re More Resilient and Powerful Than You Know.

    And when you choose to focus on solutions instead of dwelling on your problems – you activate your personal power and the forces of the Universe to support you.

    That’s one of the topics I’m going to discuss at my new masterclass “From Worrying to Winning the Money Game.”

    If it’s important for you to uncover and fix the potential problems that hold you back financially, I invite you to come to my new masterclass (see the registration link in the comments).

    ✅ Manage risk.

    To be financially successful, you’ve got to learn how to invest and how to manage investment risk.

    You’ve got to assess potential risk of loss vs potential opportunity for win and decide if this investment worth your while.

    Here’s what’ve realized….

    Everybody wants more money.

    Yet very few are willing to invest their time, efforts, and money to figure out how to make it, keep it and grow it.

    For example, I like to invest in my personal and professional growth and over the years invested hundreds of thousands in myself.

    Some of these investments yielded great results, others… not so much.

    But I am not upset about any of my investments because I know that ALL investments have inherent risk.

    And the trick is to decide if you’re going to be OK with the potential loss because the potential win is worth it.

    🔥If this sounds like something you’d like to dive deeper into and you are eager to develop winning money strategies, you’ve got to come to my new “From Worrying To Winning the Money Game” Masterclass.

    🎯You’ve got to become financially savvy, so that you make better financial decisions.

    And if you feel lingering money worries and fears about your financial future, it’s time to face these fears.

    Because if you don’t face your fears, you’ll never conquer them.

    You’ll never get past the fears.

    And the longer you go without facing it, the more deeply the fears get ingrained in you.

    Look forward to seeing you with us at my masterclass‼

    To your Health, Wealth, and Freedom!🙏

    Millen Livis 💖

  • ONE Skill You Must Have to Be Financially Successful

    ONE Skill You Must Have to Be Financially Successful

    Most people think that if they only had a lot of money, they will feel financially secure…

    NOT TRUE!

    HAVING money doesn’t mean you know what to DO with it.

    MANY high-income earners live paycheck-to-paycheck and are NOT financially free.

    During my complimentary money strategies sessions, I speak with a lot of women from all walks of life. And MANY successful high-income earners…live paycheck-to-paycheck and are not financially free!!

    And that’s not all.

    While over 63% of Americans are currently living paycheck-to-paycheck, many are now worried about safety of their money at the banks!

    NOW, more than EVER before, you’ve got to be financially savvy, so that you can make better financial decisions.

    We all wear many hats in life – parents’ hat, spouse hat, employee or entrepreneur hat, and… money manager hat – your money manager.

    Each “hat” you wear requires certain skillsets – like communication skills, parenting skills, specialized skills in your area of expertise as an employee or entrepreneur…

    Some skills are “nice to have” and some skills are necessary.

    And there is ONE particular skill that everyone – regardless of your education, type of work, your upbringing or your natural talents – must have to be financially successful.

    This skill is… Savvy money management.

    And since it’s such a foundational skill, it’s outrageous that it’s not taught at schools and colleges…

    You’ve got to be financially savvy!!

    You must know your numbers – what’s coming in and what’s coming out.

    You must have a healthy relationship with your money.

    Yep, you’ve got to know how to be intentional with your money – how to manage it, how to grow it and how to protect it.

    Whether you manage your retirement funds yourself (like I do) or outsource it to financial advisers, you’ve got to be an informed consumer!

    Money is like a game and, sadly, many people lose it before they even start….

    Financial ignorance is very expensive.

    Everybody wants to be financially free, yet most people don’t know HOW to WIN the Money game OR don’t believe it’s possible for THEM to be financially free… so, they don’t even start!!…

    And that’s where I come in…

    When I work with clients, I use the MILLENaire Method – my holistic system for becoming financially independent.

    This method addresses 4 areas of life that influence financial success the most: money mindset, money management, money investing, and… spirituality.

    This is the exact method that I used in my life to become financially independent in 7 years….

    Financial Freedom doesn’t happen by accident.

    You must have a clear intention, commitment and a plan.

    I was the least likely person to become financially free… was divorced, depressed, and broke… yet now I’m financially free for over 13 years and own homes in South Florida and in the South of France.

    And I can help you become financially savvy and grow your money with less stress and less risk, so that you too create your best rich life and never have to worry about money again.

    Message me privately if becoming financially independent is one of your “non-negotiable” goals.

    To your Health, wealth and Freedom!

    Millen Livis

  • NEW LLPA Fee Matrix for Loans –Unprecedented!

    NEW LLPA Fee Matrix for Loans –Unprecedented!

    Are you one of those people who act financially responsibly – save money to buy a home, pay your bills on time, keep your credit score in a healthy range?

    Then keep on reading!!

    Because a new regulation by the current administration, which goes LIVE on May 1st, 2023, may punish you instead of rewarding you for being a financially responsible adult…

    Mortgage borrowers with good credit will face higher costs under a new scheme from the federal mortgage associations Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac.

    And I doubt you’ll hear about this new regulation in mainstream media.

    In case you never heard about LLPA, it stands for Loan Level Price Adjustment Fee Matrix, which is an additional fee that lenders may charge on certain mortgage loans to offset the risks associated with those loans.

    LLPA traditionally were used to reward people with higher credit score loans with better interest rates because these borrowers present lower risks to lenders… they have a history of paying their bills…

    However, an unprecedented change to the LLPA fee matrix is to be enacted on May 1st, 2023.

    Under the new fee matrix, borrowers with high credit scores will face higher mortgage fees than before and those with lower credit scores will face lower fees!!

    In other words, if you’ve acted responsibly – were paying your bills on time, were not living beyond your means and have a fairly high credit score, you’ll be penalized by extra fees via the new LLPA.

    It’s shocking. It’s unprecedented. It’s a clear case of wealth redistribution.

    The good news is that the monthly fee increase in mortgage payments for most borrowers is not expected (for now) to be significantly higher.

    For instance, according to David Stevens, a former federal housing commissioner, someone with a $400,000 loan and a 6 percent mortgage rate may have to pay about $40 more per month.

    But an extra $40 per month means an extra $480 per year. And over the whole course of mortgage repayment, a homeowner would end up paying thousands of dollars more due to the fee shift.

    In my opinion, regardless of what the additional mortgage amount is in terms of actual costs, it’s unfair that borrowers with extremely good credit are effectively being penalized while borrowers with lower credit scores are being rewarded.

    And it doesn’t make any sense in terms of managing lenders’ risk!

    Because lenders will significantly cut the fees for their highest-risk borrowers and increase fees in much better credit quality buyers!!

    And while overall, lower-credit buyers will still pay more in LLPA fees than high-credit buyers, this latest change in the LLPA fee will give lower credit score / higher-risk borrowers a preferential treatment by enforcing higher-credit / lower risk borrowers to subsidy the them.

    Here’re some more specifics for you:

    Under the new LLPA rules, high-credit buyers with scores ranging from 680 to above 780 will see a spike in their mortgage costs – with applicants who place 15% to 20% down payment experiencing the biggest increase in fees….

    LLPAs are upfront fees based on factors such as a borrower’s credit score and the size of their down payment. The fees are typically converted into percentage points that alter the buyer’s mortgage rate.

    Under the revised LLPA pricing structure, a home buyer with a 740 FICO credit score and a 15% to 20% down payment will face a 1% surcharge – an increase of 0.750% compared to the old fee of just 0.250%….

    Meanwhile, buyers with credit scores of 679 or lower will have their fees slashed, resulting in more favorable mortgage rates.

    For example, a buyer with a 620 FICO credit score with a down payment of 5% or less gets a 1.75% fee discount instead of the old fee rate of 3.50% for that bracket.

    So, the penalty for having a credit score under 680 is now smaller than it used to be.

    While having a good credit score and putting more money for the down payment were strong factors that motivated people to act financially responsible, the government intention to “level the playing field” in the name of equity is decreasing this powerful reward for responsible behavior.

    With this being said, remember that your loan will still cost more if you have a lower credit score. 

    For instance, if you have a score of 659 and are borrowing 75% of the home’s value, you’ll pay a fee equal to 1.5% of the loan balance whereas you’d pay no fee if you had a 780+ credit score.

    But before these new LLPA changes, you would have paid a whopping 2.75% fee. On a hypothetical $300k loan, that’s a difference of $3,750 in closing costs.

    But that’s not all…

    Lenders can charge higher interest rates to high-credit borrowers yet pay these costs for you (but the costs are still there, and still technically being paid by you over time in the form of higher interest rates).

    Federal Housing Agency (FHA) Finance Director called it “another step to ensure that [Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac] advance their mission of facilitating equitable and sustainable access to homeownership.”

    So, what do you have to keep in mind if youre considering applying for a mortgage after May 1st, 2023, once the new Loan-Level Price Adjustment (LLPA) fees come into effect?

    Here’re a few things to keep in mind:

    1.   Shop around: It’s always a good idea to shop around for the best mortgage rates, and this is especially true now that LLPA fees are changing. Different lenders may have different fees and rates, so it’s worth exploring your options.

     2.   Improve your credit score: Unfortunately, if you have a good credit score, you may be subject to higher LLPA fees under the new rules. However, if you can improve your credit score before applying for a mortgage, you may be able to reduce the fees you’re charged.

     3.   Consider a larger down payment: Borrowers who can afford to make a larger down payment may be able to reduce the LLPA fees they’re charged.

    For example, under the new rules, high-credit buyers with scores ranging from 680 to above 780 who put down 15% to 20% will experience the biggest increase in fees, so if you can afford to put down more than 20%, you may be able to avoid some of these fees.

     4.   Be aware of the long-term costs: While the increase in fees may not lead to significantly higher monthly mortgage payments for most borrowers, it’s important to consider the long-term costs.  Because even a small increase in monthly payments can add up over the course of a 30-year mortgage.

    Overall, it’s important to carefully consider your options and understand the costs and fees associated with your mortgage before making a decision.

    Let me know in the comments what you think about this new LLPA adjustment – always love to hear your point of view!

    To your Health, Wealth and Freedom!

    Millen Livis

  • Odd Holiday Message

    Odd Holiday Message

    Decide to change your financial reality, become confident and competent with money by learning how to align your mind with your desires, how to manage and invest your money

    I believe you’re reading this because you’re not where you want to be financially in your life.

    Because there’s a gap between your aspirations and your current financial reality.

    Yes?

    And I also suspect you have tried to change your financial situation before. Probably a few times….

    Tight budgeting? Done.

    Money mindset program(s)? Done.

    Dabbling with stock investing? Done.

    Investing in your own business? Done.

    You may feel like you’ve tried so many things already yet without a dent in your bank account’s balance, let alone an improvement in your financial new worth.

    Does it sound a little like you or someone you know?

    You’re so not alone!

    I certainly can relate…

    It was December 2008… I was sitting in front of my computer in my small rental apartment…after massive losses in my investment business, car accident, divorce…

    Feeling hurt, scared and overwhelmed, looking at my bank account balance (after paying the divorce attorney)…and thinking:

    “How the hell did I get here? How did I get to this financial mess?? And is there a way out from here?

    Well, I now know that the answer is an unequivocal YES!

    I just couldn’t see things clearly at that time – I was too close to my troubles, really stressed and focused on what wasn’t working in my life (which felt like EVERYTHING during that time).

    Look…whatever your financial situation may be right now, it’s NOT the end of your life story. It’s just a chapter and…likely, a wake-up call.

    There is always a way out and way forward if you choose to make real change, instead of ignoring the need for change by putting another Band-aid on the situation…

    Change is not something that most people seek or welcome when there is not enough “pain.”

    Change is often uncomfortable, unpredictable, and even scary (because it’s unknown).

    And it seems that human nature is such that we delay/avoid/ignore a need for changes in our lives until things get really ugly.

    Until we get so uncomfortable/hurt/disturbed that we can no longer go on with businesses as usual.

    Why am I talking to you today, during the holiday season, about the real change?

    Because I see too often that people wait…and wait…and wait until they lose their health, relationship, money, hope…

    Because this is the time of the year (Hanukkah, Christmas, New Year) to MAKE TIME and reflect on your life experiences.

    It’s the time of the year to make plans and contemplate what you want to let go of, what you want to have more of, and what you want to accomplish next year…

    So, I encourage your to MAKE TIME for yourself, print and use my Wealth Planner (click HERE to download it right now) and really immerse yourself into  “your mind’s journey” that this Wealth Planner takes you on.

    Create a BIG picture for your journey to Financial Independence:

    1. Start with WHAT you want to create/experience;
    2. Dig out the skills and experiences you already have and those you may need to upgrade/acquire;
    3. Outline money habits you’ve got to change, old thinking patterns that must stop and the new ones you want to practice more;
    4. Assess your environment and inner circle (what/who do you want to keep and what/who to let go?);
    5. Decide what changes you want to see in your physical and emotional body.

    If you feel like “I know it already”, consider that this Wealth Planner is a tool to “re-mind” your old conditioned mind so that you allow yourself to snap from  “survival” or “just enough” state and leap to elegant joyful State of Creation.

    So, yeah, this is my “odd holiday message” to you.

    Let me know how it lands on you. What resonated? What frustrated? What inspired?

    To your Peace, Power and Prosperity!

    P. S. Some REALLY cool Wealth trainings are coming your way in 2020. But I have something SPECIAL FOR YOU RIGHT NOW! 

    Something that would help you JUMP START Your Investing Journey OR RE-CALIBRATE it for better RESULTS.

    I am talking about The Wealth Collection Holidays’ Special – a bundle of my most transformational and insightful programs that focus on helping you make your money work for you. 

    AND you can own LIFETIME access to these programs with the incredible 70% OFF (SAVING $700) if you ACT by January 1, 2020! 

    Wanna look what’s inside?

    Check it out here: 
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  • 13 Money Lessons your Kids are NOT TAUGHT in Schools.

    13 Money Lessons your Kids are NOT TAUGHT in Schools.

    Did you have a great experience in school when you were young?

    I had a mixed one… and very little of what I was taught was important for my success in life.

    You see, some kids have a great experience in schools. But, sadly, many feel that it was some of their worst experiences.

    Not only some kids experience bullying and social pressure as “unpopular”, but many also have their individuality and genius crushed. No wonder homeschooling is so popular these days!

    And what bothers me a lot is how little practical skill-sets our kids get in schools and colleges. 

    Specifically, I am referring to basic financial education. 

    Not only our kids are not taught about the history and origins of money, the basics of financial literacy and financial responsibility, but they are also often get conditioned to fear money and/or to perceive the desire to be wealthy as a bad or unworthy pursuit.

    So, if I could propose the basic financial education to our kids or even young adults, here’re 13 Financial Literacy Tips I would include:

    1.     Money is not a “thing” – it has the meaning YOU assign to it. So, it could be something that has a positive and empowering role in your life. And the best part is that it’s YOUR choice how you perceive money – a friend or a foe.

    2.     Wealth is not something you acquire…It’s what you create in your life. It’s also not the destination but a journey. This journey will build your character, test your strength and teach you important lessons.

    3.     Money is a form of exchange of value. In the old days, people traded commodities (e.g. grains or chickens, etc.) for things they needed. Then they invented money (e.g. gold/silver coins and later notes) as a more convenient token of exchange. The more people you serve and satisfy the demand they have, the more opportunities you create to earn more money.

    4.     You must know your cash flow – how much money is coming IN and how much money is coming OUT. And cash flow coming IN MUST BE MORE than cash flow coming OUT. If it’s the other way around, you’re bound to be a slave to money.

    5.     You’ve got to understand your personal financial statements. That includes your bank statements, credit card, and mortgage statements, etc. Ignorance is expensive.

    6.     You must understand different kinds of debt. “Good debt” is the leverage that helps grow wealth. “Bad debt” is high-interest consumer debt (credit cards’ debt) that hinders your efforts to grow wealth.

    7.     You’ve got to know the difference between assets and liabilities.  For example, a house with a mortgage is a liability, not an asset.  A car with a car loan is a liability, not an asset. More liabilities = less money for you. More assets = more money for you.

    8.     There are three types of income: Earned (paycheck from a job), Capital gain (when you sell the asset that appreciated in value), and passive income (when you receive money without exchanging your time for money).

    9.     Savings are seeds of your wealth. Investing is the fertilizer for growing your wealth. Strategic investing is how you make your money work for you.

    10.   To accelerate your wealth growth you must have multiple sources of income. Multiple Sources of passive income is how you become financially independent.

    11.    You can create wealth by building a business that offers products and services that people need, want, and are willing to pay for; OR by investing in various assets that provide value appreciation/growth and income (e.g. real estate, stocks, etc.)

    12.    It’s not about how much money you make but how much you keep. Understand how to manage it and how to minimize your investment risk. Know when to act and when to wait. Be mindful of fees and taxes. Invest in your knowledge – THAT’s the investment that has high returns.

    13.     NEVER put all your eggs in the same basket. Diversify your investments, develop skill-sets in different areas you want to invest in. Take responsibility for your financial sovereignty. 

     

    What do you think about these tips? Which ones you’d share with your kids? Which ones resonated with YOU the most?

     

    To your Health, Wealth and Freedom!

     

     

  • Your Big Badass Dream Plane & THREE Levers to Upgrade Your Financial Life

    Your Big Badass Dream Plane & THREE Levers to Upgrade Your Financial Life

    What would it take for you to feel wealthy?

    How many millions?

    Or maybe just having “more than enough”?How many homes/yachts/planes?Or maybe just having more choices?How many children/husbands/lovers? (OK, this topic is for anothertime/place… LOL)Or maybe just having more free time, working less?Obviously, being wealthy means different things to different people…And it’s great to have Audacious BIG Badass Dreams.And my question to you is: “Are you actually ready to bring your currentfinances into harmony with your BIG Badass Dreams?”Because dreaming BIG is great! However, in order to take this BIG BadassDream plane off the ground, you’ve got to get very clear about it (is it REALLYworth the efforts?), then map your way forward and learn to pilot it, so youcreate the momentum.Because if you don’t… well, let’s stay positive here.So, what is your “BIG Badass Dream” plane?What do you REALLY want for yourself and your loved ones?

    Can you describe it as if you were living it in the present moment?What do you do, what do you feel and see, where do you live, who are youwith?Make time and space for yourself to “normalize” your Big Badass Dream –make it SO NORMAL that you start embodying this dream!Then you can get to map your way forward.How do you map your way forward?By mapping your money according to your desired level of financial fitnessand using three cash flow levers to accomplish your desired results.Money Mapping is about discerning what’s REALLY important to you in life(and this may change as you go through different phases in life) and thendesigning your lifestyle so that it supports your values and your BIG dream.Money Mapping is Budgeting 2.0, because it’s NOT just about counting everypenny you spend on groceries. That’s tedious and unnecessary for mostpeople.Money Mapping is about you focusing on your BIG Badass Dream, translating itinto numbers, then reverse-engineering it into the money map so that yourlifestyle and choices are coherent with your goals.In my programs, I talk about 4 stages of Financial Fitness:1. Less than enough2. Just enough3. More than enough4. AffluenceYOU DECIDE what financial fitness level is next for you. THAT will determineyour spending patterns, your saving patterns and your investing patterns.That’s what the money mapping is for.

    My clients come to me at different levels of financial fitness spectrum and withvery different ambitions. And they ALL evolve to much higher but differentfinancial fitness levels. Because they have different definitions of “wealth.”That’s why I asked you at the beginning “What would it take for you to feelwealthy?” Your answer will determine your specific money map.In other words, your answer to this question (which only YOU know theanswer to), will guide your choices and financial decisions.For example, you may have a BASIC money map (to track your money, youcan use an Excel spreadsheet or an app) that reflects just basic needs(groceries, rent, utilities) and paying off debt. This may support a simplelifestyle, living debt-free, in a rural area, and have less pressure…Then you can create another COMFORTABLE money map that will includesome comfort items like massage, mani & padi, trips, restaurants, privatecoaching, etc.Finally, you can create another AFFLUENT money map that will cover allyour intentions and desires – from millions in the bank, to having a personalchef, jet-setting to French Riviera, and having vacation homes in resort-likelocations.Having these money maps will help you “land” your BIG BADASS DREAMplane with concrete numbers that will back it up, support your desired lifestyle.Finally, the time for the HOW question. What levers do you have to controlyour cash flow and upgrade your financial fitness?I invite you to consider these THREE levers to control your cash flow:1. Income2. Budget (pattern of spending)3. DebtAnd here are THREE ways that you can use to improve your cash flow:1. Identify your current ‘financial leaks” and make necessary adjustments.2. Brainstorm and uncover additional long-term sources of in-coming cash.3. Brainstorm and uncover immediate prospects for incoming cash flow.In summary: You Big Badass Dream can be your reality. Being FinancialIndependent is NOT a pipe dream. You’ve got to get your money map inplace, get strategic about your choices and get this plane onto the runway,ready to take off.

    With love, health and wealth

    P.S. If you feel sick and tired of being restricted by money, feeling worryingabout your retirement, anxious about investing – let’s connect! Here’s the linkto schedule a complimentary Money Breakthrough session with Millen.What do you have to lose? Fear, money anxiety, indecisiveness. What youcan gain? Clarity, direction, specific strategies and concrete steps to moveforward.